In A Relationship, Self Worth Is EVERYTHING
When your self worth is low, your focus will always be on trying to KEEP your partner, rather than on assessing whether they’re truly right for you.
Your shadow will throw up a ton of reasons why you should leave but you’ll never truly go through with it because you’re terrified that you won’t find better than this.
& Even if you do walk away, you know you’ll regret it because the decision came from a desire to stop the pain, not from a grounded choice rooted in power & self worth.
You get triggered a lot in your relationship because, ultimately, you’re putting up with shitty standards.
You’re tolerating partners who…
- Focus more on themselves & others, instead of showing up for you.
- Stay rooted in their child-self & don’t do the work to grow this part up.
- Project onto you, blame & shut you down rather than own their part in the dynamic.
- Make you responsible for their needs rather than taking responsibility for ways they can try to meet these themselves.
- Deep down, you know aren’t right for you, but you stay because you fear you’ll never attract the level of partner you truly desire.
You’re hooked believing that you have to somehow learn to be OK with all of this… because then you’ll be enough… right?!
Wrong.
You NEVER need to be OK with this.
Partners like this simply don’t meet your standards.
That’s all.
You have to make a change.
You have to DECIDE that you’re worthy of MORE.
& You have to make that decision RIGHT NOW.
Stop making yourself small & trying to avoid being an inconvenience & start taking up space & owning it.
Stop trying to gain approval & start being true to YOU.
Stop catastrophising that you’ll never do better than this & start realising you created this relationship & therefore you can create the next one too.
It all comes down to this one, simple decision.
Make it, commit to it & act from it right now.
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